Monday, November 17, 2008

The Problem: Sex

I think that it's a shame that the world has become what it is today. Humans have broken down into these money craved, power hungry, lying, cheating, theives. Sex no longer means anything. As Magen, a girl in my English class, said today, "Sex has lost all of its morals". I think that she's completely right. Sex used to be that special time with that special someone. Now it's almost like we're in an unknown competition with one another to have as many partners as we can. I'm pleased to say that I am a virgin and I'm proud of it. I'm going to have my special moment with my special someone someday. However, I'm one of a minority to be able to say that. It's horrible to admit that the world has become a cakniving, backstabbing planet with inhabitants that cannot be faithful to even one person. Once someone hits the "age", they think that they should just go ahead and get it over with.
I, non-selfabsorbidly, think that people should have at least the same sexual morals as me. I personally think that the world would be a better place. I'm not perfect, I just think that the world would be a little bit better if everyone DID wait for marriage.
Sex isn't an event for entertainment or fun. It's a serious phenomenon that you and your spouse have to prove trust. When you give up your body and mind to someone, you are pouring all of your heart and soul out on to a platter and they handle it with the utmost care. When you are ready for that, you should have an absolute trust in that person. You should know that no matter what happens, that person is going to be there through thick and thin.
These one-night stands aren't about trust. They're bluntly for pleasure and in my own personal opinion, it's sad that people do that. They show no respect for themselves, the other person, and some others can be involved as well.

FINAL THOUGHT: Wait for marriage to have sex and if you can't wait that long, at least find someone that you think you'd be able to tell your children about when you grow up. I'm sure that you wouldn't want to tell them that you had sex with someone, of whom you can't remember their name, and then you never saw them or heard from them again

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